Have LOVE on your mind? I've got 5 things for you

1. When he (or she) tells you he loves you and promises he always will, but chooses someone else over you, he doesn't really love you that much, and he certainly won't ALWAYS love you. But it's certainly time for you to love yourself, your family and friends even more. Remember: Don't treat someone like a priority who treats you like an option.

2. When he (or she) tells you he loves two people at the same time, that means YOU need to get out of the situation and cut your losses. You can never share a profit evenly enough to cover your costs. Same goes with someone who tells you he (or she) loves you, but loves drugs or gambling at the same time. If he (or she) loves a career, that can be managed. But drugs or gambling? That's impossible. He'll always need them more than he needs you.

3. When he (or she) tells you that he loves you so much, which is why you need to have sex all the time, and that's the way he shows you his love, he's got problems. Either he's only in it for the sex, or he's really got issues. Face it. If you don't deal with it, your relationship will be in trouble. YOU will be in trouble.

4. When you are going to be in a relationship with your ex, ie. start over/second chance, get ready; it's gonna be rocky. If you don't succeed, you are going to fail due to: a) falling into the same habits that broke you two up the last time, b) still holding on to the grudges from the last relationship, c) expect too much of each other, ie. "I thought you have changed!" d) regret investing more energy into a relationship that has failed before (perhaps out of the heat of the moment) instead on developing a new one, e) family and friends don't approve of the relationship, which becomes a huge pressure/baggage (reality check: you're not REALLY the only ones in the relationship; just when you think you're having sex with your other half, ie. 2 people, there really are 6 people in bed: you two, your parents, and his parents, if not more ... see "The Story of Us," starring Bruce Willis and Michelle Pfieffer).

5. If you feel nothing around you matters anymore because you can do anything, you're a much better, stronger version of you when around this person, you want to be with him/her forever, et cetera, AND he/she feels the same way, chances are you are in love. Don't let it slip away. Second chance rarely comes around.